For almost a year, I’ve been studying what exactly does it mean to be gentle? How does this relate to speech? How does this relate to our feelings? Where does emotionalism come into play (and the problems it brings)? My main questions being, “If the definition of gentleness is subjective (based on how a person feels), then what is true Biblical gentleness? Can we speak harshly, yet still be considered gentle? Do we see stronger language in the Bible, and how should we look at these stronger approaches?”
In my journey of studying gentleness, sarcasm certainly gets brought up. What is considered gentle and what is not considered gentle?
Some believe sarcasm (all) is a sin. Some believe we must only speak soft words. Some say we cannot get snarky.
Honestly, I thought stronger words could mean it’s sinful. And it is possible we COULD use strong words (harshness) in a sinful manner. But we need to consider that we do see strong language, sometimes name calling, in the Bible. Which causes major confusion with this viewpoint that we (or others) can’t be sarcastic at all.
We see this sarcasm from a righteous and loving God Who is merciful. We see sassiness from an apostle who then immediately discusses the fruit of the Holy Spirit (which gentleness is part of the fruit of the Spirit) in the same chapter. The same apostle who tells us to imitate him. We know the Bible cannot be unBiblical, God does not sin, and Paul, the apostle, was considered righteous and loving.
So, where are the boundaries? What is the point of sarcasm? When (if ever) should it be used? I want to explore verses that show sarcasm. Verses that, particularly, in today’s age would be considered “mean” or “unkind.” But just because we don’t “like” how some wording makes us feel, does this mean the wording is an unbiblical approach? This is what I want to discover.
And, of course, whenever tone/troubling words gets brought up I have to highly recommend reading Michelle Lesley’s post on: Sacrificing Truth On The Altar Of Tone. This was one of the first resources that really helped me last year, as I started to think about how we should speak, and how we need to think Biblically about what people say.
I think, at least from everything I’ve researched and listened to (so far), it looks like strong language (and I do not mean cursing, but tone or harshness in the manner of speaking) can either be one of two things.
1). It can be a poison, which leads to death.
Or 2). It can be like a bitter medicine that leads to life.
Both can be painful to take. Both can seem contradictory. (Poison can sometimes be sugar-coated). Harshness can lead to life, even if it is bitter at times.
I look forward to digging deeper and seeing what we can find in the word of God. I hope the on-going study will be helpful for you, as well.
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2 thoughts on “Sarcasm In The Bible (New Series)”
This study might definitely be helpful. I really need to know what being gentle actually means because in my family,there’s alot of yelling, words don’t have to be mean or harsh to really hurt someone and I don’t know what to do 😵 😃
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I really want to keep learning about gentleness, I might need to do a separate post on it. If not for anyone else, at least to sharer what I’ve found, and maybe it would be helpful to you. 🙂 It’s a really tough topic because I think it can be so subjective depending on the sensitivity of who you speak to. I agree with you, words do not have to be mean or harsh to really hurt someone. Scripture says we need to consider the needs of others before ourselves. We need to know if someone is more sensitive or not, and take that into account of how we speak to them.
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